tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6623841051106145302024-03-13T23:34:18.156-04:00Not SergioSarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-91214473098062077332010-11-23T18:05:00.000-05:002010-11-23T18:05:33.381-05:00The Blow - True Affection (Depth Solitude Remix)<iframe width="425" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/_xsQd2lugLw?fs=1" frameborder="0"></iframe>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-40785118447821892592010-11-21T17:09:00.000-05:002010-11-21T17:09:55.120-05:00Johnny Cash - 'Hurt"<iframe width="425" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/o22eIJDtKho?fs=1" frameborder="0"></iframe>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-16692429372164097362010-11-07T01:20:00.000-04:002010-11-07T01:20:29.141-04:00Angus & Julia Stone - What You Wanted<object style="background-image:url(http://i1.ytimg.com/vi/4IRukn_YChM/hqdefault.jpg)" width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/4IRukn_YChM?fs=1&hl=en_US"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/4IRukn_YChM?fs=1&hl=en_US" width="425" height="344" allowscriptaccess="never" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="transparent" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-80741285642620104322010-10-27T01:49:00.002-04:002010-10-27T01:55:06.797-04:00Rejected statusI think of a new facebook status every ten minutes. I wonder what it would look like if I collected the rejects. I am going to make it a goal to write down the ones I disregard.<div><br /></div><div>"ugghhh"</div><div><br /></div><div>"My lips taste like mint tea"</div><div><br /></div><div>"I'm relating too much to Julie/Julia"</div><div><br /></div><div>Nothing I write is profound and I know this. Some people write profound things and they know it's profound. If I think of a profound thing to write, it's a quote. It's a lyric. It's corny, if it's original. It's disingenuous. Some moments are profound, I prefer them to go by without a word.</div><div><br /></div><div>"My toes are cold"</div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-40266584059983674882010-06-16T13:12:00.004-04:002010-06-16T15:02:49.456-04:00<div style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://www.chitambo.com/clouds/cloudsimages/other/rain_oberembrach_jun04.jpg" /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Rexburg, ID. The outskirts of the desert. Typically this is obvious by the dry heat and sand particles that are blown around by the consistent assaulting wind.</div><div><br /></div><div>Past summer days were spent baking in the sun with homework strewn out on a blanket in the park. We'd stay as naked as possible, t-shirts, shorts and skirts, flip-flops or slip on shoes that could be kicked off at a whim. My feet were permanently stained a calico of black, brown and green from running out of my apartment barefoot for any little reason. Shuddering against cold air-conditioning and being beaten by florescent lights for more than ten minutes was torture.</div><div><br /></div><div>This summer, we're begging to be ravaged by the sun's rays. It seems to be taking an extra vacation when we need it the most. We're constantly berated by clouds and ice-cold rain. This is what they don't tell you about deserts. When it's dark, it is COLD. When it rains, it is COLD. No warm summer cloud bursts that you can stand out in barefoot letting the fat drops run down your face and over your skin. This rain is a shock each time it pelts down and touches flesh.</div><div><br /><div><img src="http://paulignatius.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/usa_-_summer_04_1091210220_raining_on_kids.jpg" /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I miss playing in warm puddles that congregated in intersections. The hot pavement paired with the warm rain from the muggy atmosphere. Perfection. Summer.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><img src="http://kamimgarcia.typepad.com/.a/6a010536b2044c970b0115701028e3970b-800wi" /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1331/539482231_cbf8f7395f.jpg" /></div></div></div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-59797536803289728022010-05-19T13:10:00.007-04:002010-05-21T19:17:34.920-04:00Little known fact...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM4uLfcjYKZx8gTBRYQlHoxOhQnqRROafDRV05U-zV60b7V1wPk_sghhEnsRf_a9oJxSUALOZZmnkus6x9dO7sKRinAdCp-jI1IBlbtKmckR-_SZKf2gDVYetptgHtP6CC3mrnaR7pi5n_/s1600/sharpie.jpg"><img style="text-align: center;float: right; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 152px; " src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM4uLfcjYKZx8gTBRYQlHoxOhQnqRROafDRV05U-zV60b7V1wPk_sghhEnsRf_a9oJxSUALOZZmnkus6x9dO7sKRinAdCp-jI1IBlbtKmckR-_SZKf2gDVYetptgHtP6CC3mrnaR7pi5n_/s200/sharpie.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5473031127894843410" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br />I love sharpies. I love how they write in a smooth deliberate line.</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8hmPv-a8Ttk4UbziX6Csem9pTwECFz2HhBXH1_ovfC3yp2bN1BF2IJNNmxg7BGlG3ALAt-Qt28GDE8MMDhu_nFu5X0fVCBwmWiQtXsG-AeZfdc-aNOg7D0oWptdBxSkxQGdCxE9D_1CY7/s1600/Journal1.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8hmPv-a8Ttk4UbziX6Csem9pTwECFz2HhBXH1_ovfC3yp2bN1BF2IJNNmxg7BGlG3ALAt-Qt28GDE8MMDhu_nFu5X0fVCBwmWiQtXsG-AeZfdc-aNOg7D0oWptdBxSkxQGdCxE9D_1CY7/s200/Journal1.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5473043608356974354" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"> I love that they are permanent and the word that is written is there for a reason.</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';">A few weeks ago I made a book that has turned into a new journal and I had a sharpie that I was using for the first few pages and it was b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMNW6cU-vKdfQKxkp3Xti2WFw8qcQYy_OkDql-68CPmXFbuBrlPCwVNiBKkMRklc5QjEJIR8syn5WHXJwoleXj9JfvZsg2QRqeapGnUrSq1w3jdAgNd2o5CQ1TlgdumR-ed8jvUviEu4h4/s1600/Journal2.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMNW6cU-vKdfQKxkp3Xti2WFw8qcQYy_OkDql-68CPmXFbuBrlPCwVNiBKkMRklc5QjEJIR8syn5WHXJwoleXj9JfvZsg2QRqeapGnUrSq1w3jdAgNd2o5CQ1TlgdumR-ed8jvUviEu4h4/s200/Journal2.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5473043694449101442" /></a></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';">I was shocked this week to discover that there are people who know me. Not in the sense that I'm misunderstood, but that there are people who care enough to pay that sort of attention to my daily ramblings.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';">In seminar we discussed what is attractive to ourselves. Generally, so people, things, whatever. Why are we drawn to what we're drawn to?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';">I came equipped because this is just the sort of topic that my roommate and I discuss when we can't sleep at 4am. I rose my hand and said, "My roommate describes my own attraction as this, though I think it's a little extreme: I'm attracted to rebellion. --" I'm instantly cut off with "YUPP!" and Sister Morgan along with a good fraction of the group verifies the validity of this.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';">Though, I still like to say I'm attracted to people or things that embrace originality.<br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'courier new';"><br /></span></div><div>Moral of the story: I bought five sharpies and am looking forward to a new chapter.</div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-33160667160702595162010-04-01T16:43:00.003-04:002010-04-01T16:47:18.570-04:00C'mon laugh with me<object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/lcqwfFKagH4&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0x006699&color2=0x54abd6"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/lcqwfFKagH4&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0x006699&color2=0x54abd6" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object><br /><br />Oh, San Francisco... one day my friend.SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-56454437850618188782010-03-20T14:34:00.004-04:002010-03-20T15:03:05.047-04:00ListsI do not enjoy relying on others for:<br />rides to the store,<br />rides to IF to get supplies for school projects,<br />new music,<br />validation,<br />photographs,<br />and hope.<br /><br />I will not commit to:<br />leg hair,<br />nail polish color,<br />dieting,<br />a boy,<br />only one crush,<br />and my perception.<br /><br />Things that get old really fast:<br />puppies,<br />wedding dresses in the front closet,<br />my attitude,<br />my wardrobe,<br />holier-than-thou criticism,<br />and soda cans.<br /><br />I can't wait until:<br />Summer,<br />getting my bike in riding-order,<br />knowing what will happen after graduation,<br />being comfortable in my skin,<br />not feeling sick,<br />and ...<br /><br />I'm freaked out by:<br />pregnancy,<br />potato bugs,<br />cannibalism,<br />dark windows,<br />Miley Cyrus,<br />and the influence of Stephenie MeyerSarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-69794082275665983492010-02-08T00:53:00.001-05:002010-02-08T00:53:34.153-05:00Inspiration<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; border-collapse: collapse; ">So I'm an English major right? Not just an English Major, but an English LITERATURE Major.... meaning, I read, and analyze... read, and analyze... and in between that... I read, and analyze. (Sometimes, I try hard not to analyze, but after six years in college [SIX years?!] I can't help myself.)<div><br /></div><div><img src="http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/ol-images/la/uploads/111607bookcase.jpg" />(This dude is the overwhelmed little man that tries to keep the information I've been gleaning over the years in functioning order. Good luck little man.)</div><div><br /></div><div>To keep my brain from overloading and suffering from the lack of creation that I sometimes feel as I read and remark on the creation of others I sew. I made it my minor actually. And since this semester I've taken up two advanced sewing classes, a floral arranging class, a guitar class, oh yeah and one Lit Theory class, my creative juices have been coursing through my brain. This past week I was blogstalking the relatives of a friend that I had never met before... creepy right? And I happened upon some AWE inspiring little ditties that I want to incorporate into my creative endeavors...</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijJn6cMPIqfZ0utQuOeBqtvcxFI-srrXYzqtUBinBTOh7bR99oaTEQjn2dBjr0Ti9jGFXzenmY6WfZgSBLAkuUlTi9LjR-Y2GBdz3H5onJSG0FWuOVIyP_25eEcbQKMJeppgDxKiP0cGQK/s400/pillow9.jpg" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjtf5pvym61M7V2iFtjiNxHbHD9p6Z3bRmZ7Zu8No5CES2oReac29xSOo-FC2FWknaTO_6oTT3VWG4x02NO0CLkEUyFO9r8wrDJx-F29IQZ4Ot8Bz9cPZVVWE01Dj6bIbGgwfP3b7uQvbY/s400/sanfraneisel.jpg" /></div><div>This is <a href="http://www.katiejoheiner.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(148, 46, 6); ">Katie Jo</a>'s blog... I think she's related to Deb? But she makes pillows and cool stuff that I kinda love.</div><div>And then I was looking for how to make flowers... and found.....</div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFStpaEu1MSZ2GNdjQkoMGlWGY4rdjSmes7ZBp7VwTISclrrG0AVkI3ZzrH83n0J95XhvJWvm1IUyWoMlQcI7NX37tG69Aiz6HANKGzN875pBj66g0NOMiSdqYkLOw1rM24ft9U7bOI94u/s400/P1110616.JPG" /><img src="http://makeitdo.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/img_3212.jpg?w=491&h=327" /></div><div>at <a href="http://www.littlebirdiesecrets.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(148, 46, 6); ">Little Birdie Secrets</a>' blog and they have a TON of stuff that is super cool... I don't think she's related to anyone</div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0Njg0NsfU-kQW8L7I4L6jBeTkZo1iOI7-EOvzcy8U16salywWP8srN6pQU48ZiVRTMyYqxvMJViY78XEm4Zf6MfRiBp4XeL5ws1Fl1dTdTAS74J0hNalZHpWkN9khlTOaSfU9eUqjKA8/s400/P1110588.JPG" />I also found this on Little Birdie, they had a link to the pattern for this purse fo' FREES and now me and my roommate Rachel will be endeavoring to make them.</div><div>Somehow through all of this I ended up at <a href="http://www.annamariahorner.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(148, 46, 6); ">Anna Maria</a>'s blog.... OMIHECK... I want this when I grow up, minus the children....</div><div><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4040/4251444453_67bd3fae8f_o.jpg" alt="new.year.sweep" /><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4052/4251444455_1787f3eca3_o.jpg" alt="parasol.light" /></div><div>These walls were hand panted, as well as the beds. AGH! I want it! And I love the hardwood.</div><div><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2736/4251444489_61610b8d4f_o.jpg" alt="clean.slate" /><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2504/4130700309_bdf067db2b_o.jpg" alt="festive.towels" /><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2623/4120865788_9045799b8c_o.jpg" alt="new.brush.house" /><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2633/4114751567_02b77415cd_o.jpg" alt="student.example.2" /><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2628/4093140273_c517146523_o.jpg" alt="fireplace" /><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2428/4030157473_23aab64474_o.jpg" alt="booth.2" /></div><div>Anna Maria is a textiles designer and has <a href="http://store.annamariahorner.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(148, 46, 6); ">AMAZING stuff</a> that I'm kinda going crazy over.</div><div>Anyway, I'm excited to create, and live my life. I'll have books in my house. But I think instead of critiquing creativity I'd be a much happier person contributing to the creative whole.</div><div><br /></div><div>Love,</div><div>SarahJo</div><div><br /></div><div>PS Sorry if this is sensory overload :D</div></span>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-7804973276805129632010-01-21T17:23:00.001-05:002010-01-21T17:23:46.976-05:00Home<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">It’s hard to feel at home now. Growing up, phrases like “You can’t go home again” struck me as odd. As a teenager, despite any tiffs I got in with my parents, I knew that when things got tough I could go home to where I’m loved and accepted; Even if I’m not understood. On my most recent sojourn in Pennsylvania I stayed with my family that gathered for the first time in two years together in my parent’s home. I walked to my bedroom, and through the familiar pokey halls and drafty rooms thinking about an earlier experience. Our extended family had been gathered together in an Uncle’s home to celebrate someone’s birthday. I was a little kid, probably seven years old, and I wandered to Todd’s bedroom. Todd was my cousin who had recently left for college, though he was home for this particular event. His room was immaculate. The bed was made. There was Pitt paraphernalia carefully organized on shelves, and the walls. The only idea that anyone had been in the room was a duffle bag at the foot of the bed. Clothes half spilled out, looking like a crouched cat that is tentative to enter a new territory for the first time. This image of the college student’s room always stayed with me. When I was back in PA for Christmas I sat on the edge of the bed that was carefully made, and stared at the BYU-Idaho pennant hanging on the wall, and the carry-on suitcase near the door. I knew that although I grew up here, I didn’t belong anymore, and all I wanted was to go back to where I did feel at home. The last time I felt truly at home, I was at a party. My roommate is into this social scene, and she loves to throw parties at our apartment and have it be talked about and meet new people. I’m definitely not in the same boat. During the beginning of this particular event I paced back and forth between the back rooms and the front porch in order to disguise my social unease. This was my apartment and I did not feel like it was home. Eventually Ivor showed up, followed by Brittany and Doug. None of these people were into this scene and we all clustered together on the couch, forming a protective bond that kept all unwanted new acquaintances away. Being on that couch, with those people who I didn’t need to impress and who weren’t trying to impress me or anyone around me, I recognized this feeling of comfort that I had while growing up in my parent’s home. Though I still am able to enjoy this feeling of home while at school I feel that it comes less and less; and I wonder where the next place that I find it will be.</p>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-84633197854680960702009-12-10T22:16:00.000-05:002009-12-10T22:18:49.577-05:00I'm Spineless (1)<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">My roommates are giggling as they look up palm reading on the glowing Apple notebook. We’re all excited for the party we’re throwing that night. It’s become an annual event with my one roommate and myself. </span><span style="color:#333333"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">We’ve been preparing all day; searching out D.I. costumes, fun foods, and all the right ghostly trimmings that are required for a memorable Halloween party. I put down the polyester cobwebs and plop in between the two sitting on the sofa and offer my left hand.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">“Tell me my future, Madam Drusilla.” I say in a mock awestruck voice. We take this thing very seriously.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Kjirstin grasps my hand and leans over it. She begins her newly learned mysticism in a thick accent. “You vill meet a maun.” She says slowly and mysteriously. We all burst into laughter. “Okay, okay! It says the shape of your palm means you do things quietly and intuitively. You have shallow lines which means…” She turns away and scrolls up on the web page. “Shallow lines mean you are easily manipulated by others.”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#333333"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#333333"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">We continued looking at each other’s palms and making up fake fortunes since none of us really believed in it. Though, even days after, I would look at my palm when my mind wandered in class or at church, or when I was just taking a moment to myself. I would trace those lines with my fingertips and will them to be deeper.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">I grew up having a close relationship with my brother. Being barely two years younger than him I always sought his attentions. Everything he did was cool and exciting. It wasn’t uncommon to be pulled away from my recreation by him to listen to his ideas, to a story that he came up with that went along perfectly with about thirty different popular songs at the time; each one having to be listened to in order and with lengthy explanations to follow and precede each.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">When I was beginning to pick something in my life to write about for a personal essay I continued to be influenced by this idea of my feeling manipulated by those around me. My third draft I began listing off experiences with people where I’ve felt manipulated. Of course, there was my brother; my friend Deb, she was a professional, had her own apartment, her own car… and she took it upon herself to help me find a wardrobe that wasn’t combat boots and hippie skirts. I thought about my parents and how they would remember details about my childhood and I’d play into those memories.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">I thought of past relationships, how I would tire of trying to become what I thought they wanted in a girlfriend. How around my roommates I listen to the kind of music they listen to and forget about my favorite artists because I know they don’t appreciate that.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">As I’m writing this draft I look back trying to discover why I was allowing myself to be treated like this I didn’t see any manipulation coming from these people. I wasn’t being manipulated into altering my musical tastes. I was listening to their music because I wanted to have something in common with them. I realized that the feeling of manipulation was coming just from myself. I was manipulating myself into thinking that if I changed, or did what I thought they wanted me to do, I would be accepted by them. I’m seeking their approval.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Even with this paper. Through five drafts and three different topics I know I was just trying to write something that would impress the other people who would read it. I’ve sat in seminar and listened to the honesty that fills Brit’s writing as she opens her relationship with her father out in front of everyone. I’ve sat there while Matty got up and bore his soul. As I went through sessions I would take input and opinion and write it as fact. This is what they want; betrayal, disappointed expectations. If this is what I write, I can become their equal.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <span style="font-size: 12pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;">Now as I look at the lines on my palm I wonder what decisions I made to make others happy. I consider every little moment in my life that could possibly have been affected by this. I didn’t even know about BYU-Idaho until I met Deb and heard her stories of the two semesters she spent here. I never would have met my boss, Sister Morgan, without knowing Ivor who used to work where I do now. It scares me, this need to please those around me. What else in my life will it affect if I don’t find a way to please myself?</span></span>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-31701393959364952522009-12-04T16:22:00.003-05:002009-12-04T16:26:05.771-05:00I sense a trendI'm spineless. And I do this to myself every time. I take criticism and, though I try to let it roll off my back, I grasp it, file it, catalog it, write a summary and take that off-handed comment and try to fit myself within the mold that others have created for me.<div>Even with this paper. Through five drafts and three different topics I know I was just trying to write something that would impress the other people with whom I work. I would take their input and their opinion of how I felt on a subject and write it as fact. This is what they want. This is how I can become their equal.</div><div>Defending myself against a loved one, telling him that I am not worried about pleasing him at this point in my life helped me to realize that now -- more than ever -- when I write this... I am writing it for me.</div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-43621684410894372822009-11-13T16:44:00.001-05:002009-11-13T16:58:29.017-05:00A thought<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>My roommates are giggling as they look up palm reading on the glowing Apple notebook. We’ve been preparing all day for the party. Searching out D.I. costumes, fun foods, and all the right ghostly trimmings that are required for a memorable Halloween party. I put down the polyester cobwebs and plop in between the two and offer my left hand.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>“Tell me my future, Madam Drusilla.” I say in a mock awestruck voice and laughter escapes the three of us.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>Kjirstin grasps my hand and leans over it. She begins her newly learned mysticism in her best imitation of a Transylvanian accent. “You vill meet a maun.” More giggles. “Okay, okay! It says the shape of your palm means you do things quietly and intuitively. You have shallow lines which means…” She turns away and scrolls up on the webpage. “You are manipulated by others.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>We continued looking at each other’s palms and making up fake fortunes since none of us really believed in it. Though, even days after, I would look at my palm when my mind wandered in class or at church, or when I was just taking a moment to myself. I would trace those lines with my fingertips and will them to be deeper.</p>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-7389645989774023542009-10-30T18:06:00.004-04:002009-10-30T18:21:11.203-04:00I have nothing to sayI sit at work, just out of sight of the desk. No one is around this row of computers. The thinly veiled florescent bulbs hang heavy above my head; the artificial light raining down on everything in sight. I pull open a blank blog post. Close it. Open it. Write a word, a phrase, a paragraph. Delete it. I have nothing to say. I smell the harsh hand sanitizer that reminds me of the alcohol wipes used at hospitals to disinfect the flesh before the nurse pierces it with a cold needle. My stomach growls, and my feet are over warm in my furry winter boots. One minute to go. I've wasted an hour trying to get motivated for homework. This isn't boding well for the weekend.SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-68390388196731327362009-10-24T13:54:00.000-04:002009-10-24T13:55:24.022-04:00My Day 10/23/09 pt. 1<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; border-collapse: collapse; "><div>This morning, as usual, my alarm rang it's soft little tune next to my head at 7:00am. Waking up, I silenced the alarm and stretched, enjoying what I imagined to be the last moments I had with the cool pillow beneath my cheek and the cozy flannel tight around my body... As I was about to yawn for the first time and propped my arm behind me to start the "getting up" process I heard it. A soft squeal of metal grinding against metal, and water rushing through pipes to splash against a porcelain tub in an echoing room. Defeated I let myself fall back against the hard mattress, kick my feet against the restraints of the suffocating blanket. Grr... Another 20 minutes of not being able to get anything done. I can't start my day without a shower! I turn to my alarm, and set it for 7:20 and rearrange myself, trying to recapture the comfort of a deep sleep.</div><div><br /></div><div>I hear a blow dryer. A high pitched whir. The light pierces through the cracks in the door, obliterating the peaceful morning light that had so soothingly filled the room what seemed like moments earlier. I reach along the cool sheet to find the hard plastic of my alarm. Nothing. My hand continues to search, independent of my body or senses, for the phone. It slips under my pillow, further under my pillow. Oh, there it is. I look at the time, the bright light annoyingly chipper. My eyes won't focus. It looks like it says 8:40am... not 7:17am... wait. No. AGH! 8:40?! Without a second thought I propel myself out of my bed, and open the door to the harsh accosting light of the vanity. I automatically turn the sharp right to the bathroom. There it is. The culprit. How dare you? I have things to do today, too. The giant blonde says something "Goodmorning" maybe? I grumble an acknowledgement that might not even be actual words and turn away. I'm homeless... what is it that I should do first? Twenty minutes? Agh. I move through the living room that is a silent tomb to the roommate passed out on the couch. I glare. How can you not have a class? I step, barefoot, on the tiled kitchen floor, it's cool... and I feel crumbs under my feet. Of course. I open the refrigerator... nothing inside belongs to me... I shut it and turn in aimless circles. I look at the oven, 8:42, the microwave, 8:43. I walk back through the tomb, a clock reads 8:40. I make my way to the bathroom. The mammoth is still blocking me and relief.</div><div>"Kjirstin, I need to use the bathroom real quick." I use the proper name for this monstrosity; hating that I can't just push it out of the way, out of the bathroom, out of the apartment, out of my life.</div><div>"Yeah, sure, babe." It says in it's perky blonde voice. It turns off the hair dryer and moves as though to continue to use it plugged in through the bathroom door. I pull the black box from the wall.</div><div>"It came unplugged."</div><div>"Oh, okay, that's fine I'll just..." I shut the door. "use it out here."</div><div><br /></div><div>Moments later, I've regrouped. I can do this. I tie my hair back in a semblance of respectability. A difficult task when I haven't showered yet that morning. I open the door. The Hun stands between me and my goal... clean teeth... As a matter of fact, the giant stands blocking like a lineman both of the vanity sinks, the drawer holding my make-up and face wash, and the toothpaste. I figure to avoid a long drawn out battle with the barbarian I'd be better off quietly finding my supplies without addressing this foreign Godzilla.</div><div>It says "excuse me."</div><div>I grunt.</div><div>Feeling more like a human with my warpaint, I walk through the living room. The corpse lays motionless. I forage for food and settle on apple butter toast and milk. Hey, the bread is mine, and the milk is fair game. The few moments I take in eating my breakfast does much for my damaged morning. I look at the clock. 8:55. I quickly move through the living room. I turn to go through the vanity. Again! Another clever assault as the viking is hunched in a crouching position ready to pounce directly in front of my bedroom door.</div><div>"Excuse me." I mumble as I squeeze through the narrow opening.</div><div>"Sorry." I shut the door.</div><div><br /></div><div>In seconds I am properly outfitted to face the onslaught of danger. Backpack slung across my shoulders I open the door. This time the brutish beast is caught unawares and cannot thwart my escape. I slip into enemy territory, and discover a knight-ess in shining armor asleep in bed. I whisper.</div><div>"Dear, I'm going to be late for class. Can I get a ride?"</div><div>Moments later, on the trusty white steed we depart. I've successfully beaten my first foe of the day.</div><div><br /></div><div>To be continued...</div></span>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-37288901864953131972009-09-28T00:18:00.002-04:002009-09-28T00:35:18.842-04:00A new friend will change an old routine...I've never been the sort to put much stock in fortunes, horoscopes, or wishes at 12:34 (whether it's a.m. or p.m.). This notwithstanding, when I get Chinese take-out I almost always save that slip of paper. On one particular occasion, I cracked open the cookie to find a fortune that read "A new friend will change an old routine." I thought: "Sweet." And even though I don't believe in fortune telling, I kept my eyes open for when my "old" routine would be changed. On days like today, I begin to feel impatient -- I've overslept, spent a majority of the day in pajamas, watched youtube videos and no new friend came along to change this "old" routine. Obviously, such a day could only lead to some serious self-reflection and during some deep soul searching the fortune "A new friend will change an old routine" came to mind. I don't remember when I got this particular fortune, and although I save all these potentially profound slips of paper, I have no idea where it is at this point. Yet, in any case, it came to mind. I reflected on new friends I had gained in the past year and one particular instant when during the seven-week break from school I was introduced to a new friend, without whom I would not have been hired at the Writing Center, which opened up my social field to include some really great people and made me feel once again that writing out my own thoughts and ideals can be fun and rewarding without the pressure of getting that all hallowed letter grade. So today, while I wait for this elusive new friend to break up my routine, I write for me.SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-325114251157401052009-07-13T20:08:00.006-04:002009-07-13T20:21:01.028-04:00summer in the city<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAOISRRLUNRn0hdcwq_NXtuQWJO4XtMCOaZH_0l8PQ_PivZHTLhSRA5hrj2-_GBea4fwIeC95KRpZqebadshRpSA0cLL82McVGSpzLL-PqitTwB-wcnEJzkizwLEAT4flE_AMnQ1q6NTIy/s1600-h/sarahjo02.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358104200156958754" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAOISRRLUNRn0hdcwq_NXtuQWJO4XtMCOaZH_0l8PQ_PivZHTLhSRA5hrj2-_GBea4fwIeC95KRpZqebadshRpSA0cLL82McVGSpzLL-PqitTwB-wcnEJzkizwLEAT4flE_AMnQ1q6NTIy/s320/sarahjo02.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4zgDoXti7uU-07wvyta64X80lS1Shlpnkm0CBs5FkPj-tii4pXe8npm9Mfoq5rBocdnnJy3jzNGcygPMs2JYHtEozG9Beiw9txuFeEz9w2a5QeZKouTKxu6MIPVRhOw6VqYwSVENnbnyq/s1600-h/grove.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358103464724221346" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4zgDoXti7uU-07wvyta64X80lS1Shlpnkm0CBs5FkPj-tii4pXe8npm9Mfoq5rBocdnnJy3jzNGcygPMs2JYHtEozG9Beiw9txuFeEz9w2a5QeZKouTKxu6MIPVRhOw6VqYwSVENnbnyq/s400/grove.jpg" border="0" /></a> Just a few pictures taken with my cell phone that represents summer thus far.<br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_tBI7MpWBRkR_LppTFRutj00VKWW1gI_D7UHpjdsUz1WGGadlrKRTcor4pgMTaFUq-_Jf6qQd0CdVmL8tF3ZoNeBtg2MVyNOadsaqWBqAPP-IkIsTcFQ8zvo7KUWQsDlVI-65qTy1dt_H/s1600-h/pansy.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358103649416887186" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_tBI7MpWBRkR_LppTFRutj00VKWW1gI_D7UHpjdsUz1WGGadlrKRTcor4pgMTaFUq-_Jf6qQd0CdVmL8tF3ZoNeBtg2MVyNOadsaqWBqAPP-IkIsTcFQ8zvo7KUWQsDlVI-65qTy1dt_H/s400/pansy.jpg" border="0" /></a></div></div></div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-75235765474684450262009-03-01T18:47:00.002-05:002009-03-01T18:52:35.096-05:00In honor of Beat month104<span style="font-size:78%;">th</span> chorus<br /><br />I'd rather be thin than famous,<br />I dont wanta be fat,<br />And a woman throws me outa bed<br />Callin me Gordo, & everytime<br /> I bend<br /> to pickup<br /> my suspenders<br /> from the davenport<br /> floor I explode<br /> loud huge grunt-o<br /> and disgust<br /> every one<br /> in the familio<br /><br /> I'd rather be thin than famous<br /> But I'm fat<br /><br />Paste that in yr. Broadway Show<br /><br />J<span style="font-size:78%;">ACK </span><span style="font-size:100%;">K</span><span style="font-size:78%;">EROUAC</span>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-17945932663970749072009-02-17T23:27:00.010-05:002009-02-18T00:23:50.473-05:00My life is written...Some thoughts on the books I've read recently... <div></div><div><br /><div></div><div>First off, Siddhartha. I'm the sort of person where if I am recommended one great book by someone I hound you until I get more. Thanks to a particular roommate I've read "On the Road" by Jack Kerouac (a new favorite author) and of course "The Perks of Being a Wallflower." So when she brought up Siddhartha, I didn't question, I bought the first copy I could find. A book that captured my full attention -- I found myself immersed in a culture, and landscape that I had never visited before and drank in every word. Unlike another, more contemporary, novel I've recently read that felt more like a poorly camouflaged self-help book, the events and scenes of Hermann Hesse's work allowed my own mind to form individual conclusions and discover something great on my own, without feeling as though I were being preached to.</div><br /><div>Orwell's 1984. The night after I began reading 1984 I had a very bad dream. I was a Jew, having dinner as a guest of Hitler. I've never woken up so stressed out. A great novel that was very affecting and interesting in that it was written something like 65 years ago and is still very relevant today. I must admit it was a pretty depressing novel, the whole idea of 'newspeak' was torture for an English Literature major to deal with.<br /></div><div><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 185px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 280px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303995173768865106" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLzb2FQza_ngOKhucPXgbcrYxI2n1y6ZEGRKvcDiliczAXrhV2LNpEGY076cYRbtXUbj9vxi47l-dGUoU7nAz6Wo4ayDKgV6bV_4f6_az3ShgXbn52Z4H1Tn3h3JLaFLpE34oYSk-ELrhC/s320/theabsolutelytruediary.jpg" /> </div><div><br /></div><div></div><div>My nephew's 15th birthday is tomorrow. He's a giant, almost 6 feet if not already. He's not big into reading but he should be. So I bought him a book. Sherman Alexie's novel "The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian." Hey, at least I didn't buy him socks. Of course, I had to read it for myself first. The story of a struggling young man trying to find a place that he can be a part of in this world, spoken from the boy's own perspective using his language and his artwork to express himself. I laughed and cried the entire way through this novel, it's a very good piece of literature. I'm pretty sure that it has been banned or challenged somewhere by now, as most great novels have. After reading it, I think it is the perfect gift I could give my nephew at this time. Junior talks directly to his audience, he doesn't talk down to them, he doesn't gloss over his life, or try to make things any prettier than they are in their true complexity -- something I think a reader struggling to be interested in reading and struggling with his own reality would appreciate.</div><div> </div><div>I'm still reading Anna Karenina. My first time reading a Russian author and I love getting back into the classics. The style of writing is amazing and there's a reason I was obsessed for many years of all things in the classic literary canon. The genius Tolstoy has for "sketching the subtlest human gestures" is breathtaking and I can't get enough. The copy I have is something I found on one of the many bookshelfs in my parent's home. The binding has a slight crack in the middle and there's my mom's name on the inside cover and the date '92 written underneath. I was five. I know my mom went to the store shopped around, picked up this novel that she had read a year or so previously, opened the book to the approximate middle (creasing the binding) and inhaled the "new book scent." She never read this copy. </div></div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-82153352663485306672009-02-12T16:10:00.004-05:002009-02-12T16:43:57.629-05:00A few projects<strong><span style="font-size:180%;">recent reads...</span></strong><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5rWjHbvXEKSVNddvADpdQ4CQf26LU1sRxIArnPClbVQjZlY9anWGU4dXDso8W3zhNel93UrRE3KMugQwaaedDY3Ji2cGepMP1cq63j9RAREltQ_ZVK2E7Esyg9KKisteGoPuUSuzzu__w/s1600-h/siddhartha.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 189px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302029437557050258" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5rWjHbvXEKSVNddvADpdQ4CQf26LU1sRxIArnPClbVQjZlY9anWGU4dXDso8W3zhNel93UrRE3KMugQwaaedDY3Ji2cGepMP1cq63j9RAREltQ_ZVK2E7Esyg9KKisteGoPuUSuzzu__w/s320/siddhartha.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKOyRN4UeT3y0yNhukgXKyt6Dvl0f5cSUR9KIxW3MK1e9Dd5cnYyGYm33jxc17AYAunFRUtQ-Y_O2o6jtSxdngEcQb3B7X4-k2dS3OrgcXkbes1VNsjTMFdkpYctaTyG9nY_HCWsFlCs9Z/s1600-h/1984.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 257px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302029327178419906" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKOyRN4UeT3y0yNhukgXKyt6Dvl0f5cSUR9KIxW3MK1e9Dd5cnYyGYm33jxc17AYAunFRUtQ-Y_O2o6jtSxdngEcQb3B7X4-k2dS3OrgcXkbes1VNsjTMFdkpYctaTyG9nY_HCWsFlCs9Z/s320/1984.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 190px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302029208459412738" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifMj7Icco0UKSxjfx4VRn9qaBdTGRSj57xrEZxQXkU1Yui3CWQ0sq2SuzSFd5dx9JgYDS5dzu3aAz4VQ66asZfNpA-zsgQrYYXvqT0uRo5zrHZXkAk1jC7lDobp1Vngh3BTfckEl__qmWN/s320/anna+karenina.jpg" /><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">recent renderings...</span></strong><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxZU7zEjjmRmtdIpssM7Bkty_4nQZRTmvzRLNVobP7mVB8EK_ZIxFhFb1xxOqInRa6NaoEynuCYaBuAAZgJz8QY3O9LrzdmahV479ThuD59O7dS389Ncd3Dq7Xyn6nFZGmI43D796ZG8lz/s1600-h/2-10-09+011.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 267px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302025210842532418" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxZU7zEjjmRmtdIpssM7Bkty_4nQZRTmvzRLNVobP7mVB8EK_ZIxFhFb1xxOqInRa6NaoEynuCYaBuAAZgJz8QY3O9LrzdmahV479ThuD59O7dS389Ncd3Dq7Xyn6nFZGmI43D796ZG8lz/s400/2-10-09+011.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302025539311757634" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvb2sCQniq_eUvZGQ7hGwNOWIW7oqO3CIU1FASvZKlmu3CXEKrTq3WQDioDAgu63Y7gwwn0dhrP0tjcX-1oNppGCBQZsQRc676zEb4SIOlsFJ_ERyk7jYMAy3GYOFDoRG08yCqmoHRZAYp/s400/2-10-09+012.jpg" /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgG6ns9oCSOx4Z5xnL9rhDhVQ3-yBzu1S7y8xXnhGLAmfHJeoAYBrXoIiNGNG45O1xFr5cBjtaYRJxhqAI3YdQLdDyUf-JAXWMERpYdDzhiOIA_L4yWNVGnUEF8aU8vVrk5MMdZV08l5FD_/s1600-h/2-10-09+010.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 400px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302026136757398194" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgG6ns9oCSOx4Z5xnL9rhDhVQ3-yBzu1S7y8xXnhGLAmfHJeoAYBrXoIiNGNG45O1xFr5cBjtaYRJxhqAI3YdQLdDyUf-JAXWMERpYdDzhiOIA_L4yWNVGnUEF8aU8vVrk5MMdZV08l5FD_/s400/2-10-09+010.jpg" /></a></div></div></div>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-81311143247853711112009-01-19T18:53:00.005-05:002009-01-19T19:00:51.935-05:00Christmas PresentsMy parents got me painting supplies for Christmas, here's my workings! <div><div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 214px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293157922399224082" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgyCugdgxeVHDXN3ISvoZL96wPOCjQaWpG4BgmgTxHVRcVxjOavxqxUN0wrkrX0yaw-_qX14v13VDMMBZNTboz97WmFzFVRKATNt3wsrL7dYtTvqoXaOa0NV3kbpB0LkcO6Ou1mmsr9BI4Y/s320/Still+Life.jpg" /><br /><br /><br /><div>"Still Life"</div><br /><br /><div></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293158258452706962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim5Cx-8zwQHpLD53eYU8dgrIUQD1CusMzpKa1OLpdRmol_dT53Zy_QX7qIyO-KMHTYXid7FzBL6szswYFGSS-EUEOZNY0ySOmGNgLlYXTBztqV5y0yMHHKWybrWb94YtFoHRTGrNgKsCLc/s320/Open+Hearted.jpg" /><br /><br /><div>"Open Hearted"</div><br /><div></div><br /><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293158855791603282" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUmbi-4YBge1pgzRzxxbsHSLjSivbgRfSQx8354kJ3V3sg0PpFRUZcWwyAIXBhpvj88_UJaNRtmr1sxey18tqksHoC01kwBL41WIqT4wvUnkr6Zib5kXcbdvC5PJkNH0_d94lt4neXvTsN/s400/Dad's+Still+Life.jpg" /></div></div></div><br /><p> </p><p>My dad's still life... and a bag of mom's sugar cookies.</p>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-18867147689489111692009-01-08T23:40:00.000-05:002009-01-09T01:24:03.087-05:00Upon returning...I've been putting off writing a new blog for the reason that, due to complete coincidence, I only posted once a month since starting. Well, if I end up posting more than once this month I'll just have to suck up my own OCD tendencies.<br /><br /><div><div><div>Since coming home to PA my mind has been a jumble of thoughts, and I've had the craving to express them and also simply to express myself as an individual. The quantity of thoughts and ideas and the urgent desire for expression has caused a mental traffic jam where barely anything has had the opportunity to break free. My purpose for this blog is just for my own outlet of expression, and those who are interested can tune in, and those who aren't interested can ignore it. I'm not looking for outside accolades.</div><br /><div>Recent reads include<br /></div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 211px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5289154677250953202" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmTRP1e0OWyAINWD-xun6gBuQTQZyQvsaUOpTaQoHEUSxfQ4BWgTOkfqyFv3XLEn2QByQTkUzmMK_udIuB4wiuKFxVcbWrbxG4oCNxxGcQhTgzxrtHRtBK686Ly3xDGyLASAMa1dGm_7ie/s320/kite+runner.bmp" /></div></div></div><p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 210px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5289154884320416978" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQROVEJBd2rfVGfHWqx7KBWyt1VEfZ5-VZJU7A5xKzSARhF7dVgG_czvTmgQzuBCZH7pFaXn-QMncnCRrkojxBAGYLUwuhmog_mjmioLt2-_zZVqIBWpumEH1lO0SczfwYg-YktbQvcJLi/s320/a_long_way_gone.jpg" /></p><p>Both of these tales highlight the lives and experiences of unremarkable individuals and their common struggle against situations beyond their control. Now, I've been an avid reader since a fairly young age. As I've grown and my taste in the written word has shifted I've discovered many different aspects that make reading so enjoyable. What I've recently discovered over the past year is that when you read frequently, you can begin to see connections between the books you choose without realising it. Now these two books (and throw in The Perks of Being a Wallflower), they each are about young boys struggling through their lives and their own human experiences. The fascinating thing is that these boys (fictional and real) are from three different countries.<br />The Kite Runner focuses on Amir from Afghanistan. Growing up Amir deals with the struggle of getting his father's love and approval, he struggles to deal with his bestfriend being of a lower caste than him and the prejudice that both experience because of this, Amir then struggles through the effects of war and dealing with regret in his later life.<br />A Long Way Gone is the memoir of Ishmael Beah. Growing up in Sierra Leone, Ishmael's family was abruptly severed by the cruel war that raged through his country. He ran from the war as long as he could until he was swept up in the army and was conditioned to kill and pillage villages as a young boy. Finally Ishmael is given the opportunity to free himself from the violence and drugs, however it is not an easy journey, and he has to struggle to avoid being swept up with the violence that refuses to release his homeland.<br />The Perks of Being a Wallflower. Charlie grows up in the Pittsburgh, PA area. He deals with his childhood bestfriend's suicide, and being the victim of sexual abuse. Dealing with his own peers and the pressures of highschool.<br />These books have greatly contributed to the theme of "The Human Condition" in my thoughts. They are all about the lives of young boys around the same age, experiencing their own tragedies and world-changing situations, their own struggle to rise above, in <span style="font-size:130%;">three vastly different areas of the world</span>.</p><p>Words and phrases like the <span style="font-size:130%;">human experience, the human condition, existentialism, transcendentalism</span> are all difficult ideas for me to grasp. Like trying to grasp campfire smoke in my hand. I can tell I tried because the smokey scent is there, but there is no tangible substance left behind once I open my fist... anyway, Jefferey Brodd lists three paradoxes of the human condition:</p><ol><li><span style="font-size:180%;">Our imaginations can take us anywhere, but our physical bodies can't. </span><br /></li><li><span style="font-size:180%;">We are capable of the kindest, most noble things, but we are also capable of the most horrible and terrifying things. </span><br /></li><li><span style="font-size:180%;">Humans hope for everlasting life, but are always inventing new ways to destroy each other</span></li></ol><p>I related these things to the idea of a Natural Man, something bringing us down and that keeps us from obtaining what we want most. Personally, I struggle with waking up early. I like my sleep and find that sleep comes easiest in the late morning. My struggle with the natural man is making the goal to wake up at a reasonable hour and then when my alarm goes off, consciously turning it off and justifying sleeping another hour or two (or three). To overcome these mediocre trials in my life would be <span style="font-size:130%;">transcending, an emphasis on perfecting oneself</span>. Right? Although, wikipedia (reliable site) says "<span style="font-size:130%;">Transcendentalism transcends imagination over reason, and inuition over fact</span>." Meaning...........? What exactly? Imagination and intuition have greater value than reason and fact? Or is this statement taken out of context and meant to apply to the idea of transcendentalism and religion? That would make sense - although you can make a religious argument based on reason and fact, few will believe without being able to have a prompting of the spirit (some might view this as personal intuition).</p><div>What is the point... there is none. I can't reach a conclusion in my mind, I just know that these things are connected. Done rambling... here's some weird pictures I took.</div><p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5289174578530861346" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxQkIHb4JTUSlhXKDYe_GN10fk29TvhJHDzBJPxe0k4YIW_1breCAzsd4uJGmHVz9JE1JFrKEU6H06MDmA77SLT_WTzhF_-FSggp9YjMh8SCkba-b9ezpf2kNvuYD0vSoAUayBjHyAa1U4/s320/01-08-09+0131.bmp" /></p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5289175000292044674" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzcg9j2afQNCamkvdrLbcP6qnjSE7D27hjfT3S7a0kJ4_VDV7C3r1jdLD5CwV9d6xlPPYANV1TIj_ZaoWMhW6RTTZITX-_r3s6XVmraj4xzE2eLo3YaKhLxpFzyM_QwTVzP_Q1KJMD4nau/s320/01-08-09+0231.bmp" /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5289175430336012866" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7_jdLMy4fCvowFBfetimWZtVIF99P4w1OEy07FsFuU7B2AMjGY3HChEH7-CPUYO54Uztr9LTrhgDMthOQroToUzeTyjrTDynS6j4bAMX9gOPkPdt011BILgrgzFNtGMrMY0E3p8xft-SO/s320/01-08-09+0291.bmp" />SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-14646979438095095252008-12-06T00:00:00.001-05:002009-01-09T02:01:15.976-05:00When the time comes to leave again...<div align="center">random brain excerpts<br /></div><p align="right"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 286px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277157979858848594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvfXIE9M_7h8cIul_lVzvJPvC6-E3-G4Yn9GezFvYOTQB4AI6K6liDahlhQ2sukH4e0HzpBf0uD6fnK1voADtjlRScfm7_aJP-bLqphbITE5_U5FZs3Fa6Kd9Kng0zXWUTGKZMwcM14Vqo/s400/the_perks_of_being_a_wallflower.jpg" /> I just finished reading Stephen Chbosky's <em>The Perks of Being a Wallflower</em>. A mix between <em>Go Ask Alice</em> and a much better--less whiny version of J.D. Salinger's <em>A Catcher in the Rye</em>. <img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276539968265359874" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJTDMYksSvYJMHiNO0gLd8U53KX20ow05V2bD8gSDK_WjhzXKCd5m1IJ2x42kgwtuTPORoTbIxrXJ9mykwPHdAelLFbWCYWB4TIlCMaHT6prHxh54ODSEKQ6dbjbu8xqkXTSO64F8P-kGa/s320/downtown_nightshot_800.jpg" />One of my English professors strongly advised the class <em>not</em> to read the book since there is a good deal of sex, drugs and alcohol use by minors. So with this recommendation and two of my good friends who have exceptional taste in books, music and movies. I picked it up for myself. I suppose I haven't reached the point where I would trade in the general experience of reading such an amazing and thought provoking story just to avoid elements of this world that are all around us. I have a certain degree of admiration for those who refuse to acknowledge that such things are in this world. Perhaps one day my point of view of this world will change and I will refuse to see the world for what it is.</p><p align="right">We were discussing in class how in Young Adult Literature the portrayal of parents/guardians are often at extremes. The parents are either absent and glorified, or if they are around they are villains and hated. The main character in this story has a very natural relationship with his parents. He sees how they do their best, and he loves them both a lot - but he also notices when they slip up and make mistakes. For once the story of tragedies and trepidation doesn't end with a suicide or a hopeless trip to an insane asylum. There is growth as the characters learn from their mistakes and begin to improve their lives.</p><br /><div align="right">Anyway... I like it.<br /><br /></div><div align="left">On a separate note... I have exactly ten days left until I get to fly back to the east coast - to see my family, to see trees (although they'll be leafless and covered in snow). Oh, I get to have my <em>own</em> bedroom! Not that it's really hard sharing with Livie at all. It's just exciting to have more privacy. Cable TV! <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUIDv-uVRsXJT1tpwYL8X8z-7z0BQm7JHPiayLzpcVya_y7XDN6ri-agw87b47Z9M9vkGWiM_kwgHmlS__QocZw3T25jFHzkS0yyUXcrpmXHNwshIlXn0v7FhT7ChpDiyiwFkhzfav7KzU/s1600-h/wuthering.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 152px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277167204174302082" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUIDv-uVRsXJT1tpwYL8X8z-7z0BQm7JHPiayLzpcVya_y7XDN6ri-agw87b47Z9M9vkGWiM_kwgHmlS__QocZw3T25jFHzkS0yyUXcrpmXHNwshIlXn0v7FhT7ChpDiyiwFkhzfav7KzU/s200/wuthering.jpg" /></a>Old black and white movies </div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRFCJYDLAJz3lCqE8YLcNibEDcI7W6Ids8HxKaAxXKYivERYBgxY7nBD5ADrVJS97dFRp_5ndEG-50k8tjCN-pCiuiEio1JZjHXhcfrpWAKzM-we7NIDXomf4NTFRCHcrEkJCqIToQIJjp/s1600-h/craig_ferguson.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 150px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277167518954058594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRFCJYDLAJz3lCqE8YLcNibEDcI7W6Ids8HxKaAxXKYivERYBgxY7nBD5ADrVJS97dFRp_5ndEG-50k8tjCN-pCiuiEio1JZjHXhcfrpWAKzM-we7NIDXomf4NTFRCHcrEkJCqIToQIJjp/s200/craig_ferguson.jpg" /></a><br />and late night talk shows.<br /><br /><br /><div align="left">I'm terribly sad to be leaving for four whole months. I'm excited to return to the world where there is diversity and... as weird as it sounds... not so many mormons. It's the best feeling in the world to be surrounded by the Saints -- but you need a break after awhile.<br /><br />I'm going to miss terribly my roommates from this semester and the great influence they are in my life. </div><div align="left"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277169777775240658" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxyElAOdNY40AY3CD46EysFeBiavZjG6fbMre0ocseU9N9IUopGQ8q0wSa4vCVHipvTUFrHV8NBK-v632VyCkdMa6u31h6OJ61-fxNpUdAddAoM5pXAkcEfq3WkmyMwfoVInma9z_chEpd/s200/roommates+1.jpg" /></div><br /><br /><p></p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277169916424155234" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiokrmDtOlqnwbJmlpzzKHQZvdY6GOngeuotmYxMjH166R13kcK3V5frfIvki5ptOLvGLMur-AsqoBiEKavUAEyz26pZ2cL-Y3HG6fOAaT8LQpVWSfdis0SpNphQrBxcdYyzQRaq5kr38Lr/s200/roommates+3.jpg" /><br /><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 150px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277170115234513074" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIhgDYh8_FEUdZNTM2OtKFMw-wEAJdWvdgUGvtDQnMuiwAWKtvkPW7w1CdyWj91aSXaVRH1tqj3jnOURdNDBKMWocQgl-T7DiQx9u5Z5Wt10UlBh43iWqrFy6vtbQ8Bv_JamHOKjXKecTM/s200/roommates+2.jpg" /></p><br /><br /><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I've felt infinite</p>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-3139700871474043112008-11-03T16:59:00.000-05:002008-11-03T17:09:41.600-05:00Friends = passive?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4TKMw8Jjh8uAdV79s_KNewUXjprdEIkl-qVXm8IFUC-q6G2SkkZVRtJhJW5hpr1NXJzrJuqa1O4Q6s_jQTVkdKKSJQE-gbbbRNHPOf3xEhT9QkwLaAhWpNKIuA066Er_pAJrQCzaLRuFD/s1600-h/us.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5264555335412250834" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4TKMw8Jjh8uAdV79s_KNewUXjprdEIkl-qVXm8IFUC-q6G2SkkZVRtJhJW5hpr1NXJzrJuqa1O4Q6s_jQTVkdKKSJQE-gbbbRNHPOf3xEhT9QkwLaAhWpNKIuA066Er_pAJrQCzaLRuFD/s320/us.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>My roommates and I had a halloween party at our apartment on Friday, it was so much fun!</div><br /><div></div><br /><p>I then woke up on Saturday with a nasty cold and am still recovering. But I have amazing roommates and friends who are gracious and have been taking great care of me.</p><p>All of this leads me to ponder the thought: Is being a friend a passive role or an active one? I see the way that relationships grow and it is usually when two people are actively involved in the other's life. So a few thoughts on the subject are, who are the friends in my life? Am I being enough of a friend to them? Have any changed recently to a lesser status? Why is this? Is it physical distance? Or something else that grows between us and keeps us from feeling that charity and love for each other. I hope I will be able to find those opportunities to serve my friends and continue to build those binds instead of neglecting them and allowing them to become brittle and eventually fall to dust.</p>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662384105110614530.post-41037563500211614912008-10-28T01:37:00.000-04:002008-10-28T02:28:41.552-04:00Thankful for...<span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-size:180%;">Friends </span><br />For those who take the abuse I dish out and <span style="color:#ff6666;">still love</span> me<br />For those who can<span style="color:#ff6666;"> love</span> me and<span style="color:#33cc00;"> build me up</span> from 2000 miles away<br />For those who give me <span style="color:#3366ff;">a way</span> home<br />For those who tell me about their lives<br />For those who embrace me<br />For those who let me lay out all of my problems and give me <span style="color:#ffcc66;">the best possible advice</span><br />For those who write words of encouragement and love<br /><br /><br /></span><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-size:180%;">Family<br /></span>For those who are examples<br />For those who do what they can with what they have<br />For those who are excited to watch five hour long movies<br />For those who <span style="color:#66cccc;">want only the best</span> for me even when it's hard for them<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Teachers</span><br />For those who give <span style="color:#ffcc00;">grace </span><br />For those who build up<br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Heavenly</span> <span style="font-size:180%;">Father</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Christ</span><br /><br />The constancy of the <span style="font-size:180%;">Holy Ghost</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Brigham Young University - Idaho</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Opportunities</span></span>SarahJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13633813563831046170noreply@blogger.com2